Ixesha lolwandle liguquguquka ngokupheleleyo kwaye umngcipheko uyinto ehloniphekileyo, isibini esithandanayo asenzanga nto iphosakeleyo, bavele baxhamla ngokuthanda ukuzonwabisa elwandle. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha indawo, okanye ekhaya okanye kwigumbi lehotele, isondo sele sinesithukuthezi kwaye asinomdla. Intle into yokuba kwakungekho bakhenkethi kufutshane yaye esi sibini siselula sakwazi ukonwaba ngokupheleleyo.
Ngaloo ndlela abafazi babesoloko bezivumela ukuba bohlwaywe kwaye baqeqeshelwe ukwenza imigilingwane. Ukuba wayeswele ngesondo kunye nokuqala kubudlelwane, yiloo nto kanye awayifumana kumyeni wakhe. Umzimba wakhe otyebileyo uvuselela umyeni wakhe, uvumela yena kunye neqabane lakhe ukuba bafumane inzuzo ephezulu. Ithoyizi isetyenziswa kunye ngaphezu kwesinye, ndiyacinga. Ukubukela okuthandwayo, ubudlelwane obuhle kunye ne-twist phakathi kwesi sibini.