Ixesha lolwandle liguquguquka ngokupheleleyo kwaye umngcipheko uyinto ehloniphekileyo, isibini esithandanayo asenzanga nto iphosakeleyo, bavele baxhamla ngokuthanda ukuzonwabisa elwandle. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha indawo, okanye ekhaya okanye kwigumbi lehotele, isondo sele sinesithukuthezi kwaye asinomdla. Intle into yokuba kwakungekho bakhenkethi kufutshane yaye esi sibini siselula sakwazi ukonwaba ngokupheleleyo.
Amasela anethamsanqa adibana nonogada onobubele. Kungenjalo, bekungayi kuba yindoda enye ekholisayo; Kufuneka unikezele kwiibhola ezinkulu zomlindi, unokubona kwividiyo ukuba elinye lamasela lifumene i-cum emlonyeni wakhe, nangona bekuya kuba ngokwaneleyo okwesibini.